Sun Mars Opposition
To better describe the opposition between Sun and Mars I would like to present some differences between two opposite signs of the zodiac, I will take Aries and Libra as an example. Aries oriented towards frank and direct action, impulsive and quick to act, passionate, subjective, egocentric, causes conflicts. Relationship-oriented Libra, diplomat evaluates the pros and cons, postpones decisions, wants relationships based on affection, seeks harmony.
It is not important to establish where Mars is and where the Sun is located since both are two male planets tending to the affirmation and ready for anything to get noticed. And now let's imagine that we have these two opposite tendencies within us that claim to manifest themselves. Do you think it's easy to live with these two tenants so different from each other and stay calm and quiet?
One way to survive is to satisfy now one the other, to be acute and affable day and another grumpy and intractable day. And this is what is generally forced by those who have this opposition in their horoscope. It alternates periods of great activity with periods of passivity and in any case remains excitable, dispersive, rebellious. Often imprudent always in war with the whole world, but in particular with the father-Sun or husband-Sun, or the authority-Sun.
There is a split between actions and thought, instinctive reactions often lead to acting in a way that does not correspond to what the person thinks he is or the image he has of himself. Sometimes the struggle between these two energies so similar but in this case divergent can lead to a renouncing and rancorous attitude. Exactly as happens to two cohabitants who, to avoid living in constant discord, decide not to express their opinions or not to express their will.
But most of the time people with a Sun-Mars opposition do not accept impositions or are willing to hide their ideas. Indeed they love the battle that allows them to accumulate certificates of self-esteem and from which they derive many imaginary medals of value and thus defeat the sense of insecurity that often afflicts them. In the field of work they are fighters who never give up on challenges and are fearsome as competitors, even if they are unable to control the quarrel well, they often end up damaging themselves.
The opposition is an aspect that, as with the square, can cause more frustration in men than in women. Not being able to control your strength or using it in the wrong way brings a lot of insecurity in the male world. As you can imagine, the relationship with the father will not be very peaceful. For some, the parent will be experienced as a bully, authoritarian or even violent. Guilty of contrasting his son's desire for affirmation, for others he will be a weak and insecure man.
In both cases, all this will not make the identification process in the male child easy and even the daughter may find it difficult to develop a satisfying male ideal.
It is not important to establish where Mars is and where the Sun is located since both are two male planets tending to the affirmation and ready for anything to get noticed. And now let's imagine that we have these two opposite tendencies within us that claim to manifest themselves. Do you think it's easy to live with these two tenants so different from each other and stay calm and quiet?
There is a split between actions and thought, instinctive reactions often lead to acting in a way that does not correspond to what the person thinks he is or the image he has of himself. Sometimes the struggle between these two energies so similar but in this case divergent can lead to a renouncing and rancorous attitude. Exactly as happens to two cohabitants who, to avoid living in constant discord, decide not to express their opinions or not to express their will.
But most of the time people with a Sun-Mars opposition do not accept impositions or are willing to hide their ideas. Indeed they love the battle that allows them to accumulate certificates of self-esteem and from which they derive many imaginary medals of value and thus defeat the sense of insecurity that often afflicts them. In the field of work they are fighters who never give up on challenges and are fearsome as competitors, even if they are unable to control the quarrel well, they often end up damaging themselves.
The opposition is an aspect that, as with the square, can cause more frustration in men than in women. Not being able to control your strength or using it in the wrong way brings a lot of insecurity in the male world. As you can imagine, the relationship with the father will not be very peaceful. For some, the parent will be experienced as a bully, authoritarian or even violent. Guilty of contrasting his son's desire for affirmation, for others he will be a weak and insecure man.
In both cases, all this will not make the identification process in the male child easy and even the daughter may find it difficult to develop a satisfying male ideal.
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